DATING

Regardless of the paths that we took, most of us quickly came to understand men. We may not have always liked what we saw, but, unlike men, who constantly ask “what do women want,” we knew what to expect from the opposite sex. Now, as we reach our 50s and 60s, many of us are choosing to re-enter the dating game. Whether divorced or widowed, more women than ever are finding themselves single and looking for genuine companionship. Unfortunately, as many of us are discovering the hard way, the dating game has changed considerably since we were younger. We know that we need a new game plan, but, we are not sure where to start!

One of the biggest myths about aging is that women over 60 no longer care about how they look. This is definitely not true. Most of us still care about how we look, even if the world expects us to be invisible. At the same time, I have to wonder whether the focus of our attention shifts. For example, do most of us still care about being “sexy” in our 60s? Or, do we care more about being “desirable,” “visible,” or “needed?”

More people over 50 are finding love than ever before. Part of the reason for this is that attitudes about love are changing. Unlike a few generations ago, there is nothing taboo the topic of intimacy and sex after 50. Baby boomers believe that they have every right to look for love – and so they should! Another reason that more boomers are finding love is technology...

In the dating world, it can seem like everyone has been chosen to be part of a couple except you. Of course, it’s not true. One in four Baby Boomer marriages are ending in divorce these days, which means there are plenty of men and women out there to date. The problem is that we feel simultaneously too good to date some of them and not good enough to date others...

Forget the aging stereotypes! Women over 50 are vibrant, emotional and sexual beings. Many of us are interested in over 50 dating, even if we don’t have any intention of getting married again. We just need a little advice on how to get started. My guest on today’s episode of the Sixty and Me Show is dating coach, Lisa Copeland. Join us as we discuss how to find love – or at least a little romance – in your 50s, 60s or better! Enjoy the show!

Nothing hurts more than when a relationship has ended, especially when betrayal is involved in some way. When a man has lied to you and betrayed your trust, picking up the pieces and moving forward can feel daunting...

When I found myself single after 32 years of marriage, I vacillated between delight and despondency. After three years on my own, I tentatively approached online dating, and numerous coffee date debacles taught me a lot...

Unlike in previous generations, dating after a divorce is an accepted option for women over 60. Of course, not all of us will feel like getting back in the senior dating game. That’s totally fine. But, for those members of our community who are still interested in finding love – or at least a little fun and romance – this episode of the Sixty and Me show is here to help...